I am just a high strung Type A kind of girl that always thought being perfect and in control would create the life of peace I always wanted growing up in a chaotic dysfunctional family, before dysfunction was cool. Turns out that kind of stress and pressure actually creates just the opposite and makes those closest to you pretty annoyed. A few years ago I started asking more questions of myself and making small changes. This year I started listening to the answers with less fear and judgement and making bigger changes. This blog is the messy, not so perfect, not always in control record of that along with a sense of humor.